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Richard "Todd" Lam

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Elkton, Virginia

Richard Lam Obituary

Richard "Todd" Lam, 35, a resident of Elkton, passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, April 22, 2014.

He was born on June 3, 1978 and was the son of Richard "Hop" and Kay Wood Lam of Elkton.

Todd lived the majority of his life in Elkton and graduated from Spotswood High School in 1996. Todd enjoyed umpiring with Elkton Little League; playing with Young Country and numerous other country bands, and was known by local musicians and fans, as one of the areas best drummers.

In addition to his parents he is survived by his wife, Michelle Ashley Lam; four children, Tristan, Kayli, Mariah and Lani; a sister, Nicole Lucas and husband, Eric, of Elkton; two nieces; one nephew; five step-children; and numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins.

The family will receive friends 6:00-8:00 pm, Thursday, April 24, 2014, at Elkton Pentecostal Church. Friends and family may call at the home of his parents at anytime.

Funeral services will be held 2:00 pm, on Friday, April 25, at the church with Rev. Clyde Plum and Rev. Keith May officiating. Burial will be in the Wood Family Cemetery in Beldor.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Kyger Funeral Home, to assist with unexpected funeral expenses.
Published by Kyger Funeral Home - Elkton on Apr. 23, 2014.

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Lisa

April 30, 2014

RIP Todd, I will miss you. I have known you all my life and there will be an empty hole in my heart. I will miss your laugh, your smile and all your crazy adventures. They only reassurance I can get out of this is that you are now sitting with grandmal and papaw, watching over the rest of us. Until we see each other again.....Love you cuz

Misty Weaver

April 29, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

MICHAEL SIPE

April 25, 2014

ALL OUR PRYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH ALL OF YOU. MAY GOD BLESS AND COMFORT YOU.

Billy Gale

April 25, 2014

"Hop" , wife and the rest of Todd's family: I am so sorry to read of Todd's passing....My prayers are with you at this difficult and sad time.

April 25, 2014

If you met him you never forgot him. His personality was infectious. My condolences to his wife, children, family, and friends. I know how much you loved him and I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Tracy

April 25, 2014

God bless Todd and his family! With deepest sympathy....for an old but wonderful friend!

Terry & Tammy Monger

April 24, 2014

May God wrap his arms around your family & and give you Peace. Sending our Prayers & may the days to come be fill with all the good memories of Todd.

Tanya Meadows

April 24, 2014

Not long ago I seen that big smile but when we said bye that day I never dreamed it would be forever..you will be missed my friend..love hugs n prayers to all of the family..praying gods love amd comfort can help you in a way only he can do..Tanya and Homer

Cathy Murphy

April 24, 2014

Kay, Hop and Family-I am so sorry to hear about Todd's passing. I still remember when he was just a twinkle in his mother's eye. Sometimes it's hard to understand why these things happen to someone so young. May all your good memories together carry you thru this most difficult time.

Michelle & Darrelll Shifflett

April 24, 2014

The Lam family, May God be with you all, through this difficult time!! May God comfort you in your grief and heal your broken hearts. God took him so young and unexpected. May you find comfort in your memories! God please touch his Mom & Dad, wife and children and the Lam family and friends. We will continue to keep you all in our prayers. I hadn't seen Todd for a while but knew he had a beautiful soul. May he fly with the angels.. Our deepest sympathy

C. Floyd

April 24, 2014

I had the pleasure of meeting Todd roughly 14-15 years ago. He had a great sense of humor, a charming smile, and immediately won people over the moment he met them. Over the years I've seen him umpiring for ECLL and I just recently saw him this past Easter weekend. He was always capable of putting a smile on your face. Words can't express how sorry I am for the Lam family's loss. Todd was a great person! Praying that God gives you each the strength you need to get through this difficult time.

Valencia Family

April 24, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers to Todd's parents, wife and children. Losing a loved one unexpectedly is especially difficult. May you all find comfort in the many happy memories you have of Todd, and may God give you a sense of peace in your grief.

Amy Morris

April 24, 2014

Sorry for you loss.. Your family will be in our prayers in this time of need and days to come. If you need anything at all please do not hesitate to call me even if it is just to get a smile..

Jennifer Dorraugh Lindsay

April 24, 2014

Many people were touched by Todd and he will forever be in the hearts and minds of those. I pray that family and friends will find comfort in the days, weeks and months to come. You all are on my mind and in my prayers.

Jamie Wyant

April 24, 2014

So Sorry for loss...Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Lindsey MacLeod Birt

April 24, 2014

Growing-up in the same neighborhood with Todd, I have MANY fond memories of him. From bike rides to "Chiefy's", and "Martin's" during the summers, to joke telling on the bus...he ALWAYS had a smile on his face, and was a pleasure to be around. May the Lord grant you all peace, as you experience this difficult journey. Prayers and blessings to you all.

Margie & Barbara Clark

April 24, 2014

So sorry for your loss..We will pray that God gives you comfort and the strength you will need to get through the days to come. You are in our hearts and on our mind. If you ever need to talk I'm just a phone call away. Mom and I love ya"ll and If you ever need us for anything please let us know...

Terry McGuire

April 24, 2014

Hop, Kay and family,
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel for your loss. Todd always seemed to have a smile on his face. Cherish the memories. May the love of friends and family help bring you strength in the days ahead and may God bring you peace and comfort. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Shirley Fix

April 24, 2014

It is difficult to know the right things to say during this unexpected loss. May you feel the continued love of family and friends to support you all as you grieve. Love and Prayers of healing and peace from Leroy and me.

Derrick Benting

April 24, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you, the Lam family during this time. I'd enjoyed being a friend to Todd as well as hearing him sing and play the drums. So sorry for your loss and may the Angels lift his voice and protect him. Rest In Peace my sweet friend.

Betty Shifflett

April 24, 2014

So sorry to here of Todd's death. If there is anything i can do for you'll? Please don't hesitate to give me a call. May "GOD" bless and comfort you'll in this time of sorrow.

Teresa Swisher

April 23, 2014

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Diana DeMoss

April 23, 2014

We are so saddened to hear about Todd's unexpected death. We are praying for comfort and strength for the family. May God Bless you all and provide you all with peace and love everlasting.

Carol & Pierce Sprinkel

April 23, 2014

We love you all. No words can ease your pain, I know. Our prayers for strength and comfort during this terrible time. Anything at all we can do for you all, please just hollar!

Lisa & Jeff Lantz

April 23, 2014

we want to send our thoughts and prayers for your loss. may god comfort you on the days ahead and give you strength. Todd may not be here with you but all your memories will be with you forever. sending prayers to all of you

Becky Sipe

April 23, 2014

My heart goes out to Kay and Hop. I hope God is with you during this difficult time. Out of all of my brother's friends Todd was one of the best. He will be greatly missed

Ashleigh Secrist Fulk

April 23, 2014

I have so many memories of Todd growing up and am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you during your time of sorrow. I will continue to pray for the entire family in the days and weeks to come.

Ashly Schroeder

April 23, 2014

May God bless you & your family & bring comfort & understanding. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Elaine Knight

April 23, 2014

Ya in my prayers and thoughts words..every time I ever saw Todd he had a smile so sorry

April 23, 2014

Thinking and praying for the Lam family.Patricia an Bobby from Shenandoah Va.

Sondie Raines

April 23, 2014

Thinking of you and Kay, so sorry. Todd was a great guy. Always had a beautiful smile on his face. He was so much fun to be around. May God bring comfort to your broken hearts.

Angela Deam

April 23, 2014

Love and prayers of peace and comfort. Know your son could always bring a smile to my face. He was a joy to know. How he will be missed and thought of fondly.

Angie & Kevin Smith

April 23, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Sending many prayers for the family, friends and his children

Dawn Hopkins

April 23, 2014

I want to send my deepest condolences to the Lam family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I ask God to wrap his arms around your family and give you comfort. God bless

April 23, 2014

Todd, you will always have a special place in our hearts, when we look at Tristan we see you, always wished you would have turned out to be our Son in law. we will always lift you up to your children

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